You don’t need another fight. You need a strategy.

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After 23 years in the trenches of family law, I’ve helped thousands of spouses navigate their divorce — but I’ve also seen what the system can do to good people. These are not proud stories of a caring resolution process.  Rather, these are stories filled with acrimony and tribulation resulting in your stereotypical bloodbath divorce often whispered between friends, neighbors, and co-workers.

 

These types of cases can all be avoided.

 

If you found this website, you are either contemplating a divorce, or in the midst of what could be a horrible chapter in your life.  I created this website to assist you to avoid the nightmare scenario and to protecting your future, your family, your finances, and your sanity. Once you have reviewed the material in this website, take advantage of my free no-pressure free consultation, which is designed to help you move forward with clarity—while avoiding a war.

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People enter a divorce often wanting revenge, validation, and often for an expeditious exit.  A common problem is that most spouses and often their lawyers don't know how to avoid the wrong intentions, and to get their divorce finished without damage.

 

A Divorce without Damage

 

​What lawyers tend to to be shy about, is that the attorneys' fees will plague your case and choke the dignity out of you and your family. They know that your divorce may put you into bankruptcy, but won't say so initially. Later the fees will essentially force you to settle where and when you shouldn't, leaving you without options and disenchanted with the process and the Court system, and hating lawyers. A divorce without damage can be your reality with the right research and the right lawyer.

 

Avoid a Bloodbath Divorce

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When your soul’s been whispering "enough" for a long time, review the articles in this website and finally get the right information from someone that wants to help you to avoid the worst of all the unpleasantries. I have watched nightmarish cases in the Court system over and over, and unfortunately, I was part of that system for many years - until I figured out it didn't have to be that way.

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I’ve been a divorce lawyer for 23 years—but I’ve also spent much of that time questioning the system I work in. I believe divorce doesn’t have to destroy people. My goal is to help you move forward with clarity and strength, and most importantly without unnecessary conflict.

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I'm not just a divorce lawyer, I'm a fixer - and here's what makes me different than others:

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• ​I have over two decades of time tested methods to manage divorce crisis and provide people with strategic approaches to every problem a divorce can throw at you.​

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• Consistently, I receive calls from spouses telling me that my approach was better than the lawyer they eventually hired and they regret hiring someone else.  They then ask me if I can now fix what happened to them.  Sometime I can, sometimes I can't.

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• I receive ongoing referrals from people that I spoken with in the past. These referrals often tell me that their friend told them that I was the only lawyer that told them the truth about the process.

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• Other Lawyers have often hired me as a consultant to help with the unattainable:  a divorce without damage. I step in a fix litigation problems and hang-ups preventing a settlement.

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• I receive calls, emails, and texts from lawyers asking me for my advice on how to best address a problem in their case.​​​

Lets start with your free talk with me to explore your options.

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Together, you can complete your Divorce without Damage.